Keep distilling your thoughts.

How is it something which is correct for us is not correct for some other individual?? Which is right for us, is wrong for someone. It looks like such a complicated puzzle to solve, questions remain unanswered. This happens when we get settled with our perspective. These right-wrong-correct are all individual based definitions, sometimes depends on the situation an individual is passing through. When we start thinking as, everybody have their own thoughts in defining the things; have their own emotional struggles which will have impact in their doings, we can accept more number of people in life and be very happy, have good understanding, and strengthen the relationships we have.

 

Someone gets frustrated and freaks out with us in a way they had never been… We get badly hurt, we just opt to cry thinking how they could do such?? We start chanting what all we have done for them……

  • We forget the foremost thing – when we give/do something for someone we should forget what we have done.
  • Never have expectation of getting pay back for our doings to others.
  • We think about our hurt, but forget to realize, what they would have been going through which made them behave so unexpectedly, which is far to their core nature.
  • They behaved such with you, being a closed one means they certainly are in worse state and need your help in deed.

How much ever you may know the person, the mental state has infinite splits, there will be so many things unsaid, unrevealed…… So don’t get settled up, keep distilling your thoughts, for a while remember all the good moments you shared with each others, make yourself prepared to face a shattered state of mind and then speak… You may help that person in realizing that what they were doing thinking to be correct is not correct for them or you may get to know some fragile part of them, and as a responsible person in a true relationship (any relationship), you may help them in becoming a strong individual@!!!!!

 

This is distilling………..

Let’s never get settled and opt to be self centric thinking about a situation.

 

 

Will scribble soon!!!!

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She was crying,still was happy!!!!!!!!!

That was the dusk time of the day Oct 11th. She was very happy because that day she was heard without speaking and also she was replying to the messages yet those were her responses to that guy’s pain. That was the time she was really far from all her dear ones, heart was really ready to relay on, believe upon on little care shown.

Yeah that care, affection was shown by that guy. She started emotionally relaying upon him, and so was he. She told some stories to get his attention. Today she feel it was not at all necessary, feel so funny. She goes mad remembering what all she did thinking without doing all that she could lose him!!!…..

There were lot of negative energies homed in him which was in him from his childhood. It was really a great challenge for that girl to live in that negativity so that she could sweep it completely from him. As a believer of good will, goodness, patience, truthfulness, thoughtfulness he had always been a puzzle to tackle. She certainly loved tackling him. She did it heartily that day without any expectation and today she feels complacent to see her reflection of optimism in him.

For people it looked, she gives all her time to him, roam with him, would be doing all fun stuff, but she knows most of their calls, walks were to resolve one or other problem of him or his family, personal disturbances. She knew what she had been filling in, replacing those disbelieve on himself, wrong conception he had about life with all positive perspective. She nourished him as her own kid.

For entire world he was a big mess, stubborn to handle, rigid to teach but for her it was easy. May be her most willing heart to help him, made it easy…..

So many questions raised over her choice from her loved ones. She cried those days very badly, but at the end she was very happy, thinking she is the only one who knows what all she had gone through, what all she have faced, on all those for the “good will” she have chose him.

Whatever people may say, think today she knows what all difficulties she had been through and will go through for whom she has chose, but she believes that is life, when you face no difficulties, pain you never become a great sculpture from mere rock.

Today their clear thoughts, show casing them their beautiful life coming ahead,….they are going ahead hand in hand, happily……………..