Parenthood, such a special, merrier feeling, one such eternity it holds, a phase of life where a soul finds capable of oneself to nourish another soul.
How many of you out there have prepared yourself while entering this phase of life??????
A sincere answer would help you for the profound interpolation at least now (It’s never too late when there is will to change).
Parenthood should never start with apathy, kinship liability for the newborn, I am the one because of which it can get existence on this earth otherwise they wouldn’t have made their life, I know everything and the new born knows nothing so it should be blindly follow me …
Instead, start your parenthood thinking till date I have learnt through my experience, through my overcoming attitude , being firm over my decisions, being sometimes dilemmatic as well, doing mistakes while learning, exploring, making up my journey through span, being compassionate, grateful, loyal, humble, kind, truthful which I have taken from the soul who have brought me up ….. So now you feel ahead of your journey with yet learning, growing, doing mistakes, exploring, you can help a newborn … you can support a bud to blossom its life.
Emotion of giving/doing for the needed is debt nonreturnable when done without any selfish thoughts. Be prepared to teach them effectively the treasured happiness present in helping, giving the one who need. Teach them to live with humanity….. When you are raising up a newborn to be “Humane Human being”, in your old age as a human with humanity the soul will not only understand, take care and stands as back bone for you but also would help other cursed homeless aged souls. It will by that time understood the value of support.
“Newborns are not life insurance policy that you invest on for future help” (This attitude sprouts the selfishness in relationships, help and expect return attitude)
Let your journey be a mutual exchange one… learn from them and help them learn!!!!…. The innocent soul sometimes unknowingly teaches such incredible life skills that if you keep yourself open you will be astonished for sure. Let yourself completely to make the new soul inculcate life’s basic skills, to love, to care, to be humble, to be grateful, to be satisfied, to be truthful, the acceptance attitude, to be compassionate towards their passion.
Inculcate in them to protest against the wrong, to be fearless, never teach them to tolerate, never teach them to bow head for wrong, teach them to stand firmly for their dreams and passion. “Firmness” is one such great trait!!!! Teach them to live for themselves, teach them to realize mentally how strong they are, that they can overcome anything and everything.
Why do you have to dream that an other soul should live as you decide, should breath even dream as per your wish??????, Let them weave their own dreams, let them define it in their way . Teach them to identify the evil this world has and just leave them to live, to explore, to do mistakes and be in your best way to teach them through their mistakes, keep your whole heart blessings as their armor, keep yourself as an invisible shadow of theirs to secure them, so that they be safe when required and yet feel the freedom of swing to take a leap in their journey!!!!